

Ach du meine Liebe
1984-12-09 · 86 min · ★ 9.0
Detlev, a single insurance clerk in his 30s, is kept dependent by his loving and caring mother and loses his girlfriend Karin as a result. Grief and an alcoholic chance acquaintance prompt him to place an ad for marriage. Detlev gets caught up in a whirlwind of friendships and love affairs: with the caring widow Karin; the well-to-do hair salon owner Ute Schöbel; the cultural editor Norma Goldbach, the photo reporter Kerstin and the student Andrea Binz. Detlev, who initially proves himself as a friend and advisor, but also as a lover, becomes increasingly self-confident. He is also successful in his work and finally emancipates himself from his mother. Although he loses "his" women in a turbulent odyssey, Detlev has transformed himself from a mama's boy into a thoroughly acceptable man.
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- Directors
- Georgi Kissimov
- Production companies
- DEFA-Studio für Spielfilme, Fernsehen der DDR
- Countries
- Germany, East Germany
- Status
- Released
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Jaecki SchwarzDetlev Korf
Marianne WünscherHilde Korf
Karin UgowskiUte Schöbel
Franziska TroegnerKarin Siekert
Martina ServatiusNorma Goldbach
Ezard HaußmannHerr Stoff
Wolfgang OstbergMaxi
Wolfgang GreeseGreiner-Appel
Hans-Joachim Hanisch
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