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While You Weren't Looking
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While You Weren't Looking

2015-10-28 · 104 min · ★ 2.1

Drama

Dez and Terri, a mixed-race couple married 20 years and adoptive parents, they are the trailblazing lesbians of the New South Africa. But, have these freedoms guaranteed them happiness? Asanda, their 18 year old adopted daughter, is the poster child for South Africa’s diversity but describes herself as “an experiment”, being made up as she goes along. She meets Shado, an enigmatic Tommy Boy from Khayalitsha, a township on the edge of Cape Town, and a different picture of the New South Africa emerges.

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Directors
Catherine Stewart
Production companies
Out in Africa Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, Phat Free Films, Puo Pha Productions
Countries
South Africa
Status
Released
Budget
USD 595,441

Top Cast

Camilla WaldmanCamilla WaldmanTerri
Sandi SchultzSandi SchultzDez
Fezile MpelaFezile MpelaJoe Thulo
Lionel NewtonLionel NewtonMack
Petronella TshumaPetronella TshumaAsanda
Thishiwe ZiqubuThishiwe ZiqubuShado
Tina JaxaTina JaxaMilly Thulo
Jill LevenbergYasmin
Terence BridgettTiny
Pascual WakefieldGreg

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